A collection of example vows to help you find the words that feel like you

Traditional-leaning vows (timeless and sincere)

“I promise to stand by your side in all of life’s changes, to celebrate your joys and support you in your challenges. I vow to listen with patience, to speak with kindness, and to love you with steady devotion. Today, I choose you, and I will continue choosing you every day we are given together.”

Modern & simple vows

“I choose you—not just today, but in all the ordinary days that make up a life. I promise to show up for you, to laugh with you, and to keep building a life that feels like home, wherever we are.”

Emotional & poetic vows

“You are my calm in chaos, my laughter in silence, and my home in every sense of the word. I promise to hold your heart gently, to honour your dreams as if they were my own, and to walk beside you through every season life brings.”

Light-hearted & playful vows

“I promise to always let you have the last slice of pizza… even when I really want it. I vow to be your partner in adventure, your teammate in life, and your favourite person to do absolutely nothing with on a Sunday afternoon.”

Deep commitment vows

“I vow to love you not only when life is easy, but when it is difficult. I promise to grow with you, to forgive quickly, and to never stop working to understand your heart. I choose to build a marriage rooted in trust, respect, and unwavering care.”

Short vows (Perfect for shy speakers)

“I promise to love you fully, support you always, and choose you every day.”

OR

“You are my today and all of my tomorrows. I promise to love you endlessly.”

I’m here to support you if you’re struggling to find the right words for your vows. I’ll gently guide you through the process, helping you reflect on your relationship, your promises, and what you most want to say to one another. Together, we’ll shape vows that feel natural, heartfelt, and truly yours—so you can speak with confidence and meaning at your ceremony.